WE SHOULDN’T BE SILENCED. WE MUST BE HEARD.

WE SHOULDN’T BE SILENCED. WE MUST BE HEARD.

It is almost always difficult to make a decision. Probably, it is harder during a pandemic when you battle against time and limited resources. Not all administrators will make the right decisions. Not all employees will have the same opinion. What’s common, I suppose, is the collective vision of ending the pandemic at the soonest time possible.

Everyone is afraid, anxious, or worried about dealing with many uncertainties. As a result, everybody is doing all things they can to be saved. Obviously, some *subordinates*, as they call them, would want to be heard. Some people talk in small groups. Some in bigger groups. During a pandemic, it is natural for these people to begin to raise their concerns about how things are being handled. It is common for people to criticize decisions they think are doing more harm than good. It is common for people to propose solutions to problems that directly (or indirectly) affect them.

On the one hand, it should NOT be common and natural for people to blatantly silence critics who are airing valid concerns. Issues, concerns and criticisms are all part of leadership. Rather than thinking of them as bullets attacking or undermining the administration, it is more important for administrators to consider them as challenges. Rather than play the victim, administrators can own criticisms and convert them into opportunities.

Too many administrators get too defensive and choose to focus more on their reputation. They tend to impulsively react and dismiss legitimate issues and concerns, rather than objectively assessing or reevaluating the situation at hand. There have been times when administrators turn the criticism around the person speaking up. They end up chasing the ‘mastermind’ who can easily be blamed, rather than seeing it as an opportunity to learn from someone else. Yes, even from someone among the “subordinates”.

Criticisms are sometimes a clear reflection of poor judgment, but never of character or personality. TAKING CRITICISM IS A DIFFICULT THING. But criticism can always be considered a form of communication – an honest feedback on what transpired after a decision was made. Such feedback can make us stronger by allowing us to listen to honest views that tell us what can be done better. Moreover, TAKING CRITICISM IS UNCOMFORTABLE but it forces us to think about how we work and how we decide. Constructive criticism can guide us away from making poor judgment and subscribing to bad practices.

I believe one of the most important qualities of an administrator is being a good listener. And that applies more when one is being criticized. Don’t always shut them down. Turn up the volume, lend your ears, and listen to what is being said. Be the change agent people want you to be. Turn the negativity into an avenue that enables growth, maturity, and innovation. Turn words into action. Show that you can listen to feedback and at the same time get the job done. Together, let us change the workplace culture of blame. Let us heed the call to become more honest, transparent, and consistent.

Rather than flashing your palm at someone, open up your arms and say…
“I have thought about what you said and this is what I’m planning to do. What more do you think can we do?”

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